When words are concern, they do not hold liable to any uttered.
A lesson painfully learned, once bitten twice shy.
It really shouldn't be categorised by gender. Human in generally should be blamed.
Who hold to the words uttered, who hold on to the promises...

By saying or promising was prolly the way to your heart.
Not many are stupid enough to say things you want not to hear.
You happy, i happy, ok la.
"pluck the moon for you" ok, this is old school..
"I want to hold this hand forever"
"this is the finger that i will put the ring"
"do you want to move in with me"
"can't wait to be with you forever"
and the most irritating of all... "i love you"

LOVE LOVE LOVE. The four letter word.
It means the world to some, its meaningless to some.
The intensity of the word, not all can understand.
Defining it may vary even.
To me, its unconditional. Don't mind me, but as the
bible writes..
"Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud.
It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, It is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always preserves."
1 Corinthians 13:4-7

I'm not trying to be holier than art thou, but it defines
the intensity of it. Think more than just a contemporary 'love' relationship.
It has to go beyond that isn't it? Holding hands, kissing or making love.
If it can't go deeper and that, i wonder is it even worth.

If you can say it to my face or to anybody that you love that person..
i tabik. First, lesson one, love yourself.